4 Steps to Help You Deliver Bad News to Customers

by Cate Schreck – Lightbulb Training Solutions


Many years ago, I worked in a Bank and on my desk, I always had a P Pile. The P Pile was a pile of files and tasks that I wished would go away.  I called it my P Pile because everything in there I Procrastinated over and at the top of the pile was the list of customers I had to contact and advise their loan application had been declined.

I loathed ringing customers to say “Sorry, you can’t have that home loan, credit card or personal loan.” No customer ever was thankful to receive that call, and many became angry and would abuse me for wasting their time, destroying their dreams, stopping their holidays or simply making the wrong decision.

Telling customers bad news is never fun and always left me feeling drained. We all know that it’s impossible to please every customer all the time and humans make mistakes, so to survive in your business, you need the skills to deliver the bad news that leaves both you and your customers, feeling valued and respected.


4 Steps to delivering bad news like a professional 


  1. Turn on your empathy.Not all customers will have the same behavioural response to bad news so don’t treat all customers the same. Some customers may respond with anger, others may need time to absorb the information, others will ask lots of questions and some will sense your unease and listen calmly. Instead of spending hours worrying about how the customer will respond, stop procrastinating and move on to Step 2


  1. Listen without interrupting. Whatever the response, let the customer express their feelings. Avoid interrupting as this can upset the customer further. Listen with the intent to understand. Take notes of your customers’ concerns and feelings (either written or mental) as you are going to need them for Step 3


  1. Acknowledge what you heard.Once the customer has expressed their feelings and their concerns, paraphrase what you have heard; “I understand this has made you feel annoyed/frustrated/disappointed and this is going to affect your family/friends/plans/outcomes. Use their examples not some generic response. When we paraphrase we confirm that we listened and care about their situation, so much so that you can now move to Step 4


  1. Offer support/solutions.Now is the time you can talk alternatives or solutions but make sure they are matched to the specific needs of your customer. Often your solutions will be the same for every customer but show you care by confirming how that solution will help their individual situation. It may still be less than what the customer wants but it conveys respect.


Upset or angry customers can make us want to defend ourselves and the business or if we did make a mistake, we can over apologise and make promises we can’t keep. None of this is good for the customer, the business or you.

For more help with delivering bad news to customers, Chapter H in my Book “The A – Z of Service Excellence” is about Handling Complaints and Chapter V is for Venting. Both chapters are packed with practical tips to help you feel as valued and respected as you make your customers feel.

Link to Book  – www.lightbulbtraining.com.au/the-book


Cate is the Director of Lightbulb Training Solutions (LTS) and is known for designing and delivering workplace training programs that educate and motivate staff to work together in harmony and provide consistently excellent customer service. Cate is passionate about sharing the skills that create harmonious workplaces and delighted customers. 

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